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Hadith - Bukhari's Book of Manners #313, Ahmad, Ibn
Hibban, and Hakim
... 'Abd Allah reported that
the Prophet of Allah, upon
him be peace, said,
"A believer is not a fault-finder and is not abusive, obscene, or
course."
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Hadith - Bukhari's Book of
Manners #329
... Ibn 'Abbas said,
"If
you wish to mention the faults of your friend, mention your own
faults first."
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Hadith - Bukhari's Book of
Manners #330
... Ibn 'Abbas said on the
following verse of the Qur'an,
"Nor defame one another" (49:11), "Do not spend your time finding
fault with one another."
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Hadith - Bukhari's Book of
Manners #545
Jubayr ibn Nufayr reported
that Mu'adh ibn Jabal said,
"If you love someone, do not quarrel with him and do not annoy him.
Do not ask others about him, for the one you ask might be his enemy
and thus tell you things about him that are not true and thus break
you apart."
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Hadith - Bukhari's Book of
Manners #889 and Ibn Hibban
'Amr ibn al 'As said,
"...I am amazed at one who spots an impurity in the eye of another
but is unable to detect it in his/her own eye, or who attempts to
remove a grudge from another's heart while making no attempt to
remove grduges from his/her own heart. I have never blamed anyone
for the confidences of mine that they have betrayed. How could I,
when already they have given me reason for pause?"
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